An Unremarkable Story from the Age of Trans

My story is completely unremarkable. When new parents introduce themselves on the Genspect forum, the introduction is often word-for-word the same as mine. So here is my very ordinary 21st century story. We’re a liberal family, of the social justice variety. My husband and I both have a postgraduate education. I’m trained in epidemiology so I know … Continue reading An Unremarkable Story from the Age of Trans

Sticking my head above the parapet in a rainbow sea of harmful affirmation – A parent’s perspective

I live in a country far behind the UK and Europe, the USA and Australia in terms of gender critical advances. In other words, I am surrounded by those still blindly in the thralls and thrills of the militant affirmation glitter rainbow. All the adults in the room seem to have forgotten basic biology and logic. … Continue reading Sticking my head above the parapet in a rainbow sea of harmful affirmation – A parent’s perspective

Trans and the myth of sloppy parenting

Recently in online transgender activist realms, I have been encountering a kind of casual acknowledgement of Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria (ROGD) by associating it with sloppy parenting. The message seems to be that if your adolescent child is asserting transgender identity and demanding new pronouns and cross-sex hormones it is the result of your own failure to … Continue reading Trans and the myth of sloppy parenting

School Personnel are not Qualified to Diagnose or Treat my Child for Gender Dysphoria – Especially Without my Consent or Knowledge

Our story of trans-identification in our child doesn’t start with loneliness stemming from the pandemic as many others’ stories do. It started about a year prior to the pandemic. I was taking time to deal with some childhood trauma of my own, with the help of a therapist. I dove into my healing, was fully … Continue reading School Personnel are not Qualified to Diagnose or Treat my Child for Gender Dysphoria – Especially Without my Consent or Knowledge

Parent Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy Or Doctor Munchausen?

Modern medicine is a negation of health. It isn't organized to serve human health, but only itself, as an institution. It makes more people sick than it heals.-Ivan Illich Munchausen syndrome by proxy: a condition where a caregiver or spouse fabricates, exaggerates, or induces mental or physical health problems in those who are in their care, … Continue reading Parent Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy Or Doctor Munchausen?

Outside influences: how our spirited daughter boarded the trans train

Our daughter was unique and spirited from birth.  As a young child she was imaginative, highly intelligent. She loved learning about new things and developing theories about how the world around her worked.  She also was extremely girly and loved dressing up, makeup, posing for photographs, and dancing. She never met a stranger and would … Continue reading Outside influences: how our spirited daughter boarded the trans train

What it Really Feels like to Have a “Trans Identifying” Kid

To my family and friends who have not supported me or been by my side during the hardest time in my life.  My son told us 2 years ago that he was “transgender”. I immediately knew that something was off, that something else was going on with him. I researched it, for endless hours, as … Continue reading What it Really Feels like to Have a “Trans Identifying” Kid

The Supply and Demand of Trans: How About a Little Help from the Kids?

At PITT, we’re hard at work on the supply side, trying to slow down the torrent of hormones dangled in front of our kids, to hold practitioners accountable for the experimental nature of their medical gender “transition” treatments. We’re shining a light on the negligence of therapists, practitioners and gender clinics who, with only “very poor” … Continue reading The Supply and Demand of Trans: How About a Little Help from the Kids?

Letter To a Well Meaning Bystander

Open your mind-when it comes to trans, you might be misguided Dear Friend, I appreciate the concern expressed for my daughter and any difficulties that she and our family might be facing.  I know your sympathy is sincere and you would like to be helpful if possible.  I thank you for your suggestion of {embracing … Continue reading Letter To a Well Meaning Bystander

Why our kids think they’re trans

Read the reasons they've given us, their parents Are you under the impression that “trans kids” just know who they are, and that transition is how they become their true self?  As parents of these “trans identified” teens you read about on the news, we beg to differ.  You see, our kids are smart, many … Continue reading Why our kids think they’re trans