It’s Wrong to Play the Pronoun Game 

I’m a parent of a “trans identified” teen, so the pronoun dilemma is close to home for me. However, as a society, we cannot tackle this issue only when it impacts us personally —we need to band together as a society to say no to this toxic ideology, and saying no to pronouns is a … Continue reading It’s Wrong to Play the Pronoun Game 

Why T is different than LGB: a parent’s perspective 

When my older daughter was in her early teens, she enjoyed going to Teen Pride events. For a while, she dated girls. She never “came out”, it wasn’t necessary. She knew we didn’t mind whether she dated girls or boys. The only action we had to take was to drive her to her dates. Easy.My … Continue reading Why T is different than LGB: a parent’s perspective 

Dear Planned Parenthood 

Dear Planned Parenthood, I cannot support you at this time and here is why. Planned Parenthood does not require any sort of mental health assessment before youth seeking hormones for transition can obtain those powerful medicines. What else are you neglecting here? Careful health assessment for other underlying medical conditions that could make hormones physically dangerous? This … Continue reading Dear Planned Parenthood 

The World Needs All Kinds Of Boys 

My son came out as trans to me by text message almost 3 years ago. His message basically said “I am trans and I need hormones”. He had only been “feeling this way” for about a month prior to that, and found the answers on the internet. From there, he planned a quick medical transition … Continue reading The World Needs All Kinds Of Boys 

DAMAGED BY TRANS? THE LAWSUITS ARE STARTING. 

The lawsuits are starting – and it’s about time. In the last couple of days, law firms in both the US and the UK have put out a call for claimants wishing to take legal action as a result of harm done to them or their family members by trans drug treatments and surgeries.  Parents of gender questioning kids … Continue reading DAMAGED BY TRANS? THE LAWSUITS ARE STARTING. 

Dear Therapist 

Dear therapist, I’m writing because I’d like to get help from someone in your professional community but I’m concerned about the care that me and my daughter would receive in today’s activist-driven climate. You see, my daughter is gender questioning and is experiencing dysphoria. This is concerning to me, and I would love some help, … Continue reading Dear Therapist 

TRIGGER WARNING; GRAPHIC IMAGES

THIS IS WHAT YOUR KIDS ARE WATCHING ON TIK TOK The irony should not be lost on us that a trigger warning is required for an article written for adults about what their kids are watching on the internet. But in the age of social media and trans mass hysteria, this is where we find … Continue reading TRIGGER WARNING; GRAPHIC IMAGES

A letter to my son’s affirmative therapist 

Dear x, I see that J is getting worse and worse despite the depression medication and all the therapy sessions with you. He complains of having a lot of anxiety, plus, as you know, he is still on sick leave. The really concerning thing is that, when he started the sessions with you he was … Continue reading A letter to my son’s affirmative therapist 

Just a Phase: We should never “transition” kids, teens, or young people 

When my son was 13, he announced he was trans. He told me, he told his friends. He had sought advice online and reached his conclusion. He was sure, he said sadly. He wanted new pronouns, a new name, new clothes.  I cried, I hugged him. I told him that of course I would love … Continue reading Just a Phase: We should never “transition” kids, teens, or young people 

The Myth of Trans Permanence 

If you are new to the crazy world of gender, you’ve heard that trans is something you just know. So, if your kid comes out as “trans”, that’s who they are, who they’ve always been. You just somehow missed the obvious. And now that you are aware you have a trans kid, your job is … Continue reading The Myth of Trans Permanence